The violence in Cartagena de Indias
One of the biggest mistakes that human beings make in solving
conflicts is to use violence as solution. People live a problem
and so to get the last word, to win the cause to get to an end,
use verbal and physical violence as solution. This problem isn’t
only in Cartagena, but all around the planet. Therefore, instead
of solving a problem, people multiply problems without noticing
it.
Cartagena is a place where people are really violent. Whether
it’s at home, at school, at work, on the street, between friends,
etc. violence is the answer at a problem. You only have to live
certain problems to really see these facts. And a problem isn’t
something good or bad, it’s an opportunity to evolve and live
differently.
IWhy using the violence?
Simply that education conditioned people to use this and that
kids see this everyday as solution at a problem. Therefore,
adults, that where kids, have deep habits inside of being
violent when a problem happens.
What’s a problem?
Here’s the question that could change the perception of people,
but rare are those that are interested in agreeing better with
themselves and others. But still, this action of well agreeing
simply creates what people don’t have: richness and a life
quality.
A problem is simply a consequence (uncomfortable feeling) that
we create unconsciously in order to get a possibility of
experience to evolve in consciousness. If we don’t make new
choices, then we’ll recreate the same uncomfortable feelings to
send us in a new opportunity to evolve. It’s the reason why
problems come back again (like poverty), because our choices
weren’t advised.
The large majority of problems are produced when two people or
more don’t have the same desires or intentions, so each one try
to win, obtain their own desire, without understanding that the
only functional solution is to arrive at realizing the desires
of both of them. Observe yourself and you’ll see that it’s
really this that’s happening.